I have been trying to teach my kids not to say words like "shut up", or "stupid", and pretty much any curse word out there. Well, with Sara and Jacob in school, you never know what they will come home saying. I have found that on the first offence they respond to asking Heavenly Father to help them to remember not to say those mean words. If there is ever a second offence then we go to the soap for a cleaning. It may seem mean but it works! Jacob is a very honest boy and I am very proud of him.